Letting go

"The best lesson I’ve learned in life is…the importance of good enough…I’ve come to believe that good enough is a smart, strategic, and satisfying goal to aim for." — Adelaide Lancaster

Claudia’s Book List – Spring 2013

claudia ON Letting go

Finally SPRING is here ladies! As I sit here thinking about the five authors and friends I am about to introduce you to, and their must-read books for spring, I can’t help but see my personal passions and life patterns reflected in each of them. Since Wednesday, I’ve been getting texts about Sallie Krawcheck buying READ MORE »

Jacquelyn Zehner ON Letting go

CEO, Women Moving Millions

Q: Women often spend so much time judging their decisions and obsessing over the “what-ifs.” How do you let go of that doubt and focus on what is ahead?

A: I don't spend a lot of time with the 'what-ifs.' I don't really know why that is. Now that I have children I think it is more innate than learned, as I have one child in particular who hates making decisions and when he does, always looks back and second guesses himself. I believe it is very important to learn ... READ MORE »

Tulsi Gabbard ON Letting go

Congresswoman for Hawaii's Second Congressional District, U.S. House of Representatives

Q: What do you do to unwind or disconnect?

A: Having balance in your life is important, both spiritually and physically. I practice yoga and meditation on a daily basis. As a lifelong vegetarian, I do my best to maintain a healthy diet, and also make time for exercise, whether it's running, Crossfit, martial arts training, or surfing. Physical activity is essential not only for staying in shape, but also ... READ MORE »

Alexis Sclamberg ON Letting go

Writer, Speaker, Media Personality, Alexis Sclamberg

Q: Women often spend so much time judging their decisions and obsessing over the “what-ifs.” How do you let go of that doubt and focus on what is ahead?

A: What-if’s are brutal. They can completely diminish an idea or project or plan and send you into a total tailspin of worry and angst. My favorite thing to do is catch myself what-if’ing and turn the “what-if” on its head. Rather than what-if all the bad stuff, try what-if’ing all the good stuff. What if it all works out? What ... READ MORE »

Jennifer Chen ON Letting go

Co-founder & President, Givology

Q: Women often spend so much time judging their decisions and obsessing over the “what-ifs.” How do you let go of that doubt and focus on what is ahead?

A: This one is very hard for me. I am quite an obsessive over-thinker. I also happen to be a bit more influenced by those around me than I would like to admit. Thus, I try to make small lists of immediate-term “quick wins” that I’d like to strive for. This helps me stay focused. I also like to talk to people ... READ MORE »

Rayah Levy ON Letting go

Director & CEO, ArtéQuesta

Q: Women often spend so much time judging their decisions and obsessing over the “what-ifs.” How do you let go of that doubt and focus on what is ahead?

A: Personally, I have a great group of soul sisters who support me. There are a few things I do to help me let go of doubt and maintain focus. Forgive yourself. However you do it—through prayer, meditation, yoga, or running—stop and create silence within yourself and forgive yourself. You did your best with what you had and now it’s time to ... READ MORE »